It is Human Family, Everyone Matters

It is Sunday bright beautiful very cold morning, still better than yesterday's 
20 C below zero. I am done with my breakfast now sitting in the TV lounge.
I have done my laundry yesterday so find something else to get busy.

I have plans, nothing to worry about. For now I am watching Sports 
Channel, also doing my Scrabble and Sudoku books, looking through
the glass panels, in front, enjoying the view of my back garden.

I can see two skeleton trees in addition to the pear tree. One is at the 
right side of my garden, the other one is just beside, in the center, beside  
the wooden fence. 

I see the Black Squirrel busy in his workouts. He is using some other 
techniques, climbing all the skeleton trees. Snow is all around. It looks  
very quiet and peaceful atmosphere. 

Winter is the time to look into your own self. To ponder, to take a break, 
to go through deep down, to search the real you, your own inside, which, 
we never have time to look into. We have to make use of this golden 
opportunity, to do all that.

It is 11.30, my youngest grandson, the Slurpee Boy is awake. I am going in 
my kitchen, one of my favorite place, in my house, to make banana shake 
for him,  for my son and also for my own self, to get happiness. 

We have to reward ourselves, to keep track that our body is in a state, 
to cooperate with our plans. We can not spread happiness, unless we 
ourselves are in the state of happiness and feel the real contentment. 

Be happy but don't take smile away from the faces around.
It is Human Family, everyone's happiness matters. 
Please keep that in mind.

Dear Readers in Ireland, don't stop my friend the Priest from coming to 
the reading sessions of my Blog. Sometimes people are going through
difficult moments in life. He needs time and support.

Dear Retirees, things will always be fine, if we try not to intrude other 
people's personal territory and their private matters. It is very rude. 
Just try to focus on your own self please.

I request everyone not to disturb the Cafe atmosphere. We have to observe 
the decorum, required at public places with people around. No raising 
slogans, no shouting please. Thank you.

I salute my friend the Cafe manager for being patient. Please keep the 
reading sessions of my Blogs, out of personal, Religious and political 
grudges. Thanks.

My friends of "Smile with Smile program", I think this is not right, to use 
the term, "Sibling rivalries". When we use negative and harsh words, 
it reflects the same. The entire scenario becomes bleak, a total negative, 
looks not an easy situation to tackle.

Difference of opinion is very natural, whenever there are couple of people 
gather anywhere. Kids, specially Teens are more emotional because of their 
age. Nothing wrong with that. 

I agree this is tough situation. It becomes more vulnerable for everyone in 
the house when parents become emotional and lose their temper. Parents 
have to be calm and patient before talking to their kids. Don't try to solve. 
Just listen to them patiently. Listening is great therapy. 

While listening, try to focus all of your body parts. We have to take it like 
a Religious Ritual. The person on the other side must believe you that you 
are listening to him, putting your heart into it. 

Listening is a skill. It grooms our personality. It renders a soothing effect to 
the person, who is talking to you. He believes to put his case with total trust. 
Please talk and listen to your kids, things will be cool down for everyone.

My Dear Readers, please don't worry about my doing laundry and other 
things. We have to feel fortunate, to be active and doing things on our own. 
I believe that way. We have to make use of our body parts. What we don't 
use, we start losing. This is a fact.