Take a Break to look around
Thursday -- Beautiful bright sunny morning 33 C, will be 41, later in the
evening. Another hot day. Rain not even on the horizon. I am feeling bad
for my garden as our pipe got burst. We have to get another one. My son
is working so will take a while.
It is 9.45, I am done with my breakfast, enjoying my tea, sitting in my room.
My computer is on, my windows blinds are drawn. It is a cozy atmosphere,
to enjoy my time. I left a slit open to look out, to enjoy my garden and to
connect with the world outside.
Looks very quiet, may be because of the weather. I can't see any bird.
No Black Squirrel, Red flowers from the garden across, not full of smile.
Everything matters, so is weather, to make or break our day.
Our life is affected by the people and atmosphere around, so are the lives
of other creatures. I think lake trip is also out of question as my son is busy
with his work, with his meetings.
I have to make my own day. Nothing wrong with that. For now, I am
talking to my daughters. It is a conference call. My son is also connected.
It will not long, just short and sweet chit chat.
My youngest daughter had some ligament problem on her left arm, it
erupted again. She posted the photo of her bandaged hand. We are
making comments.
She use to post photos. Post of her garden, flowers, her dishes, whenever, she prepares anything special. We make comments,
not to hurt her but to enjoy.
small town so people have time to socialize. We use to pass comments about
her partying. She doesn't do that all the time, but we just do that, to chit
chat, to have good time.
We have to keep track and be careful, specially when there are bunch of
people there. We have to keep a check and balance. Make sure not to hurt
anyone's feelings.There is fine line between making jokes and making fun.
Between criticism and being sarcastic.
We never have to cross lines, to criticize anyone's personality or to talk
about someone's week points. No one is perfect, everyone has his own
positives and negatives. We have to avoid to enter his private territory,
to talk about his personal life.
Talks have to be light, to make the atmosphere brighter, to let enjoy
everyone there, not to hurt anyone's feelings. It has to be, to flourish
the existing relationship, not to shut it down, and to draw curtains.
We Humans are full of emotions. Everything affects, to trigger our mood.
Our sleep, our family matters, our work, it could be anything. Sometimes,
we can not figure it out but something looks wrong, not at the right place,
and we, not the same person, to behave normal.
We Humans are not computerized. We are a complex piece of machinery.
Full of emotions, sentimental. Our brain can easily be triggered by
anything, at any moment. Not easy to rectify, everything goes out of track
after.
Brain is the powerhouse, controls our mind and body. We have to be careful
to deal with the things around. Don't overdo, don't over work. Take breaks,
to cool down, to give time to yourself, to settle down. Nothing is end of the
world. Just relax, to take time out, to look the beauty around.
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