Happy with my old Machinery
Today is 29th, April is nearly done. One more day to go. It is 12.30, I am just back from my work, playing my Darts. Yesterday also, I was working from 1 to 3 pm, busy doing Carpet Bowling. At our age, time is running out. We have to grab and avail each and every slot, to make our day. I am not 100 %. My back giving me problems. What you expect with seventy years plus old machinery. This is life. In couple of days, I will be one more year older.
I believe, age is just a number. We have to keep pushing ourselves to do things, to enjoy our time, to make our day. Of course with taking our health and safety into account. One of my friend at my Seniors club, gave me a beautiful Birthday card. So nice of her.
One of my old time friend, came back after years, to play Darts. She had stroke, was also busy with other family matters. She looked very fragile, not so strong to hit the Darts board. She was feeling low. We were trying to boost her up. We have to be for our family and friends, in their difficult moments. Anyone can face such moments, sometimes in his/her life time period. These are normal after age. Things start coming up after we get older.
We have to put ourselves in other person's shoes, to have an idea of the challenges, other people have to face in their difficult times, especially dealing with their health issues. It is not easy, need our support. This is very touchy time. They must be very emotional, deep inside. We don't have to hurt their emotions. Our purpose has to be supportive, not to let them down.
Let him be relaxed. Don't have to pin point the issue, he has to deal with. Talk something else, to calm him down. something of his interest. Try to ignore the issue and talk in friendly manner, any table talk to let him distract and to enjoy the moment in hand. We all are members of the same Human family. Keep that in mind. We have to share special moments of our fellow being.
In happy moments, sharing will magnify the intensity of joy and celebrations. In troubled period of times, sharing will diminish the gravity, takes the burden away to some extent, so to handle it comfortably.
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