Hang in there, you will enjoy

To All my Dear Readers
Happy New Year
2020


31st Dec, it started snowing since morning. My son is going to Home Depot.
I will go with him. He will go to Mechanic, on the way will drop me at the 
Pickering Mall. I will walk around, enjoy my time alone slot.

It is cloudy day with light snow and 7 C below zero. It is 11.30, I am at the 
Mall, got my trousers for Dollar four, from my favorite store, Dollarama. 
Sometimes, we have to get things for our own selves, to feel happy.

Our life is the same,with ups and downs. Life is a Trail with bushes around.
No genie will come to make your life, a happy one. It happens in stories, 
not in real life. I am also Human. Things happen to me too. I have to handle 
and manage things around.

We have to keep track, not to let ourselves, feel low. Life is very tricky. 
Our mood swings depend on so many factors. The people around, the 
atmosphere, everything affects and matters in our lives.

Happiness is like our checking account, which goes on diminishing, every 
moment. We have to keep track and time to time, have to make deposits 
in that account.

There are so many ways. We can buy something for our own self,
read some of our favorite books/magazine, give our time to help others.

Go to visit our favorite place. Have a cup of tea/coffee, sitting at the favorite
spot in our house. We don't have to spend lot of money to get bulk of 
happiness. Just keep on making small deposits of happiness moments.

Don't go for big plans.There is equal and opposite reaction to every action.
Don't go for some drastic action. It wont give you lasting peace of mind
and happiness.

Just relax and enjoy the moment within the existing circumstances. I mean
whether you are living alone or with big family, you have lot of money or 
with limited income. Nothing matters. You can not buy happiness. 

Don't take any pressure to grasp happiness. If you run after, it wont 
come to you. Happiness is the real inner peace. It comes from inside,
from your inner self. Just relax and you will have a feel of real happiness.

Jan 1st, first day of the year 2020. May God bring all the happiness 
to my Readers Family and their loved ones. Amen. Today is holiday, 
everything is closed. 

It is 11.45, I am at Tim Horton, enjoying my coffee with Croissant and jam. 
Sometimes, we have to change menu, to give color to our lives. It works. 
Life usually is the same. 

We have to keep on playing tricks, to keep it lively and colorful. Please 
always keep in mind, not to interfere with other people's lives and personal 
matters. I have gone through all the comments from my Readers family.

I keep on writing that we never have to cross our limits. Have to respect 
everyone's personal lives and their privacy. I think, I was not able to 
communicate my message. May be my words lost the power, to go 
through, to penetrate deep down.

Things are same with my Readers. In Ireland, my friend the Cafe Manager,
facing the same problem. Threat of bankruptcy and law suit. Things will 
be resolved for everyone, if we try to mind our own matters and just leave 
everyone alone.

My Friend "N" is not happy with me for not writing for her. I assure you 
my Dear that you are my friend and I love you. Trust me. Hope now you
will be fine.

My friend Niklas is the same, losing his phone and his net cut down.
Father, always enjoying and messing up with other people's lives.

My Readers are like my family. Everything matters and hurts me too. 
I wish everyone of you lead a happy life and let others do the same.