Looks Like Skeleton

 

Friday -- Beautiful sunny morning of late October. Surprisingly it is 10 C, not so cold, will be 23 later in the afternoon. I am done with my breakfast, walking on my deck, enjoying my morning tea. It is foggy around and wet on the side path of my back garden. I think might be raining last night or may be it is morning dew. Whatever is there, looking great, beautiful. 

I am enjoying my tea and also the scenic view. Trees looking great, displaying beautiful colors of Copper, Gold, Coffee, Brick Red and different shades of Orange. What a beauty to behold, to cherish.

Schools in England are closed for this week so my daughters are home. They messaged me to call when I am done with my breakfast. It is 9.30, now they messaged to call later, for now they are busy with things in their household. 

We parents don't have to push our kids, don't have to put pressure. Have to leave them alone to tackle their matters. First priority is their own family. We can wait. We are more mature, more experienced, can handle things on our own. We don't have to look to our kids, all the times. Have to learn to give them space. Find our own hobbies to get busy, to enjoy time on our own.

Look back, turn the pages of your life. We didn't have much time to be with our parents. Nothing wrong with our kids. Things look different if we try to put ourselves in other's shoes. Living together with our kid's family or living outside of their household. We have to give them space, to let them enjoy their own family life.

Have to avoid to interfere in other's personal matters and try to respect others privacy. It works for smooth running in all relationships. Let others do whatever they want. Try to focus on your own self to have good time and to spread happiness around. 

Kids are adults now, we are done with our duty. They know what they doing. We don't have to take advantage of being parents. We don't have to give them dictations for the rest of their life. Don't have to set the mode of our choice for them to decide the route of their life. Not fair to them. 

It is 10.30, I am in my room. My computer is switched on. I am browsing Facebook messages and also enjoying the beautiful view of my front garden through the window. The tree in front, looks great with beautiful scarlet red leaves. Black Squirrel enjoying his morning snacks under the Magnolia tree on the left of my garden. 

Red wooden bench on the right, adding up the beauty of my garden. Magnolia tree is full of leaves, displaying all shades of orange, yellow and green. Some tree on the side, started losing his strength, now looks like skeleton. Things change. So is our life. Time flies. Value your moments in hand. Try to make use of your moments, which go on slipping from our lives.