Enjoying at Coffee House

 

Hazy morning. The sun is not awake, hiding under his grey blanket. 

I think he is still drowsing, maybe he was partying with friends till late at night. It is a cloudy day and the rain is on the way.

No one home. I am sitting on an empty nest. Everyone left for work. My youngest grandson is done with his uni exams. He is with his friends on a four day trip to Montreal and Quebec.

Friends are like a treasure. They are like blessings when you find them at the same wavelength. Traveling with them is a big step. Not easy with the right company..

I think he is lucky to find colleagues of his choice. It is a tough time. I believe that people are a bit lonely. It is the time of Facebook and social media. No one has time to share thoughts with anyone.

Especially for youngsters it is a difficult era. They have to face too much pressure at school time. Pressure from the family to compete. The family structure is also not the same as before.

The marriages are now not forever. Things changed. Everyone is under pressure resulting in losing confidence in his / her partner. People are not so patient to let things go.

We are losing trust. Trust in the behavior and motto of the people in the household and around. The jobs are getting tougher for our youth to find. To start a career of their choice is not on the horizon.

They try to fit in with whatever they can. Most of them start life with not any peace of mind. They have to face struggles at work as well as with their family matters.

Too much pressure nowadays for everyone. The pressure around and the pressure people feel inside. This leads to loneliness. People I believe are feeling insecurity, leading to depression.

This damages their mind and body. Specifically targets their mental well-being. To find the company of our choice is a blessing. To share things relieves pressure.

Try to make adjustments. We have to compromise. There is always give and take in all relationships. Nothing works one sided. We have to be patient to maintain relationships.