The Inside Child Peeping out

 

Friday -- Beautiful sunny morning with 3 C. No rain, no snow, no sub zero temperatures, great. Looks like a summer for we Canadians. Time to get out, time to enjoy. My friend, the Black Squirrel is busy with his exercises on the wooden fence of my back garden. He looks very particular, always trying, keeping his body in shape. 

It is 10. 30, I am done with my breakfast and with my morning chores at downstairs. I already emptied the dish washer to put everything in place. I spent some time n the TV room to be with my son. He is busy with his work on computer. I made sure not to disturb him.

Sometimes just staying with your loved ones, matters a lot. We don't have to talk. That is not required. Our body, our presence is good enough. It communicates in it's own way. Every person has his own individuality. Body emits special rays, which spread peace and tranquility, for the loved ones. 

This is a two way process. We have to be sure that the other person feels the same way for us. Sometimes, it becomes annoying and results into personality conflict, if there is no coordination between the people, we are around. 

Our face is like the report card of our personality. It displays the weather report of our inside. The inside feeling, which we not able to express, this all is loud and clear on our face. We don't have to say anything. The other person can get the message. 

We have to clearly read these messages of the people around, to set our limits. Sometimes the other person is not in a mood to be with anyone around. He wants his own space, his own time alone slot. Sometimes he is busy. We have to respect his privacy. 

We have to check the face expression, to get the message but don't have to make any announcement. Stay away from his personal territory. No interference for now. No talks, he doesn't need company, just leave him alone. Everyone needs his own personal space. We have to respect that.

It is 11.45, I am at Petticoat Creek. Water is glittering under the sun. I can see Sea Gulls on the left. I think, they are taking a break to socialize, to enjoy their time with family and friends. I see "Go train" passing on the overhead bridge. This train runs through the Municipalities to connect. 

Trains are my childhood fascination. I still enjoy watching trains. I think there is a child hidden in everyone's inside. We try to  hide this child of ours but sometimes he succeeds to peep out, to defeat our cover up personality. This child is our real face, our real self.