Silent moments act like boosters

It is Saturday cloudy. cold , rainy morning with 11 C. It looks my chances 
of walking today, is done. On weekends, after my breakfast, I spend some 
time, in the TV lounge. I am not a TV person but it is just to be with my 
son. Everyone else is sleeping, he wakes up early.

It is important to connect with our kids and with the family we live with.
Communication is key in relationships but we never have to cross the line. 
We have to respect their privacy and their personal moments.

Everyone has his own time, to be with his own self. Nothing wrong with 
that. We have to flourish our relationships and not to make a dent in the 
existing ones. It is not necessary that we have to talk.

We can enjoy our silent moments too with the company of our choice. 
Sometimes such moments act like catalysts, to boost our relationships.
I keep my Crosswords and Sudoku books, to get myself busy, while my 
son is also busy with his computer.

We use to talk but it is not something that we have to. TV is on and also 
I am enjoying the view of my back garden. The lush green grass looking 
beautiful with some gold color Dandelion, here and there.

The pear tree on the left, is now full of white flowers.The glass top of
my patio table, giving an amazing view with rain drops showering on,
like pearls.

It is 10.30, I am on my computer for a while, to go through my Facebook
messages. My youngest daughter called me from Reading. She was busy
gardening. Over there, at her place, weather is great.

My other daughter, the middle one, also called. She lives in Grimsby, five 
to six hours away from my youngest daughter's place. In England you can 
not predict time. Sometimes half an hour distance, takes hours.
Especially if you are on Motorway.

It is 12.30, my son is now going to Gym. I am getting ready to go with him. 
I will get down at Tim Horton, to enjoy my time alone slot, my small 
coffee and to write my Blog. We have to avail any chance to get out,
to get busy, to distract ourselves from thinking negative.